So what's important in life? One thing I know is important is my relationships with my family. I know that when I'm on my death bed, I won't be too concerned about the petty things, but developing strong relationships will be top on my list.
I so often worry about what other people think. This is silly because if I just try to make others happy I won't be able to do that and I'll be miserable myself. Not a good plan.
My life mission is to eliminate the stigma of mental health and suicide. I'm still working to figure out how I can work with others who have the same mission. I do know that being willing to talk about the reality that I lost my brother to suicide 13 years ago is a start.
This desire is personal and professional. I know what it was like for me to go through the grieving process (and I'm still grieving as I was reminded this afternoon at a funeral of a 13 year old girl that I never met who took her life). I want to be there for those who are struggling with these difficulties. I'm not afraid to talk about suicide and depression.
I've reached out to my church to support the youth group and those who are struggling to make sense of this sudden loss. I don't have all the answers, but I have an understanding that can only happen through personal experience. Please reach out to me and I can connect you with resources in your area (if you're not in the Harrisburg/Hershey area).
Thanks for reading. I am writing a book about my experience of losing my brother to suicide 13 years ago. I put it down so that I could focus on supporting my family through the birth of my second child (both daughters). I am almost ready to get back to it.
Thanks for reading and let me know how I can help you.